What do you do?
I was at a dinner party last Friday and of course as people do they asked "what do you do?" Well as I clumsily tried to explain in a nice short answer that I am raising rabbits and chickens right now, I also renovate for myself and for other people when I have the time and need the money. My answer is complicated, and multifaceted. Most of the things I do are not glamorous or what I started out in or thought I would end up doing after many years in university. I wouldn't change my lifestyle for anything and the price is a lot of hard work. The payoff is huge, but not usually in dollars. I grew up at a time when women were supposed to prove their worth on the battlefield of professional lawyers, doctors and Wall Street brokers. As my mother and other woman and men fought to get women the freedom to get out of the kitchen and shake off the limitations of domesticity and labour, I think we lost the freedom to choose to stay home and make that a success. After keepi...